I don't know anyone who brags about how well they complain. Or, who credits complaining with creating their fantasy life. Or, who gets their child a tutor to learn how to complain better. But I also think that most of us don't even realize how often we complain. Complaining is telling the world that things should not be the way that they are. He shouldn't act that way. I should make more money. He should not text me before the work day begins. She should carry her own weight.